Community rules

Treat others with respect, and give them space to decide.

  • Be honest about marital status and other facts that could affect someone’s decision. Say who manages the profile. Do not use fake photos or impersonate someone.
  • Do not harass, threaten or insult anyone. Respect a decision not to continue a conversation.
  • Do not pressure anyone to share photos, contact details, documents or money.
  • Sexually explicit photos and videos are not allowed.
  • Create a family member’s profile only with their permission. Their consent matters at every stage.
  • A guardian is optional. With your consent, an invited guardian can read chats. Both people see that a guardian is present. You can turn this off or remove them.
  • Use Report for scams, fake profiles or unsafe behaviour. Use Block to stop contact. Keep early conversations on the site.